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So yesterday was Friday and thank god, I needed the weekend to come. The vibe around the office is just about killing me and the Nublet. My Boss has got to figure things out, I can tell you one thing is for sure, he is not a leader. Leaders can be born or made, but like everything else in life you must work at it and learn. Being a truly valuable and effective leader you must learn alot about people and what motivates them. Being a leader takes time and energy that few are truly willing to spend.

Im starting to loose alot of my ambition towards working for someone who is so clearly unapreciative of the things that I and others do for him. But that all said what bothers me most is his SPIN mentallity. He knows he has a gift for selling people his ideas so he trys spinning everything. In otherwards, has the ability to tell you that he is not happy with your work while in the same breath make it sound like its not your fault, so that there is no room to standup for yourself. I know I do a great job so I feel I have the right to complain. Not alot of people can do for him what some of us do at the office.

Oh well…. I’ll admit there are things that are weaknesses for me, but thats the difference between him and I. I will admit those weekness and take the responsability to change on myself, where he quite simply blaims everyone but himself. There sure are alot of people I have met in the last few years with this ever growing Victim Mentality.

Please people, take responsability for your actions its quite funny how much you can improve on things when you make a concious effort to imrove rather than to blame. I can strike out in a game and blame it on the umpire or I can walkoff and figure out what happened so I don’t do it in my next at bat.

Thats the thoughts of the Nubster for today.